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I have shared about having a partial tear in my rotator cuff. I had an MRI in February in Georgia and the result was a partial tear. It caused me quite a bit of pain for several months and I have not had full range of motion. I did pray for it to be healed. It was not an every day consistent prayer, but I threw it in there a few times when it really bothered me. In July, I was able to go to an orthopedic doctor and I had another MRI on July 20th. The results for that MRI showed that there was NOT a tear in my rotator cuff.

WHAT???

That’s right NO TEAR AT ALL!!!

What was my reaction?

Instead of praising God for healing, I assumed that the Georgia doctor had lied about the results of the first MRI. I assumed that I never had a partial tear. Not until a couple of days ago did I give God any credit at all nor did I even once think it was a miracle.

Did God heal my shoulder?

I now believe He did. There is no other explanation for it. I deeply regret that that was not my first assumption. I missed the opportunity to use this testimony of God’s healing powers. I missed the blessing of praising Him for the miracle. I missed it and I can’t go back. It really is the worst feeling ever. Why did I not immediately jump for joy? Why did I assume the worst of someone else? I can only say that I am human and I make mistakes. I am now praising God for the healing and for answering my prayer. It’s still not 100% but the shooting pains are gone. I still don’t have full range of motion, but I can use it a lot more than I could a couple of months ago. I still have some arthritis, but the partial tear is gone and I thank God for miracles.

God is good! I can’t even begin to tell you how He has provided for me in my life time. I am eternally grateful that He chose me to be His child. I am horribly imperfect, but He loves me just as I am.

 

 

Dear single mom,

Have you ever picked up the Bible, but put it back down feeling overwhelmed? I have! The Bible can be intimidating! You have this BOOK of 66 separate books that somehow fit together and point us to Jesus. The New Testament is easier to read than the Old Testament, but where do you start?

There are experts and non experts who swear up and down that EVERYONE MUST read through the Bible at least once. I actually did that one year. What did I retain or get out of it? Absolutely nothing. WAIT! WHAT??? Okay, I’m sure I got something out of it since it is the Bible and it is alive and all, but really, it was such a fast paced plan that I felt that it became something to check off of my to-do list rather than something I WANTED to do to learn more about my God. I got bored and bogged down somewhere around Numbers and almost gave up. I continued to muddle through, but my passion for the project was gone and I don’t remember much about what I read.

So, what do I suggest? 

Study one book at a time – With the Holy Spirit’s guidance, choose a book of the Bible to start with. As you read through it, answer the main questions: When, What, Why, Where, Who, and How. How does this book fit into the overall scheme of the Bible (God’s plan to bring restoration through Jesus)? Are there verses in this book that are commands that you can apply to your daily life? How is God speaking to you through this book? I like studying one book per month. Some books will take longer and there are those that are short enough that you can study 2, 3 or more in one month. Read 1 or 2 chapters a day or whatever is comfortable to you. This is NOT a race! Remember, the goal is to RETAIN what you study. The goal is to FEEL the Holy Spirit as He works through His Word. The goal is to GROW in your relationship with God as you read through His Word.

Journal – There are different methods of Bible journaling and you can look them up on the internet, but I find that I get the most out of my study when I answer the questions that I listed above. I also, like to pray scripture. I will write down the verse(s) in prayer form. Praying God’s Word back to Him can be powerful. When you read a scripture that speaks to your heart or a situation that you are dealing with, write it down and reflect on how God is using this verse to encourage you, guide you, or speaking to you in any other way and then pray that verse back to Him.

Listen – If we pay attention, God will speak through His Word. The Holy Spirit works through the Bible bringing it to life for those who believe. The Bible has the ability to transform lives like no other book ever written. If we listen, God will use the Bible to speak to us and give us the wisdom we need to muddle through this thing called life.

I encourage you to start reading the Bible today! Start in the Gospels where you can read about the life and ministry of Jesus from those who walked with Him. The 4 Gospels are written by 4 different men, to 4 different people groups, from 4 different perspectives. I am always here to walk beside you in your single mom journey. Contact me if you need encouragement, prayers, support, or anything else. Be blessed single mom!

 

 

Last week I talked about my feelings of being luke warm and hoping that I am not. I have my moments of doubt and that bothers me. I am not alone in that though. Many men of God throughout the Bible had doubts and were still used by God in some awesome ways.

I know that God has worked in miraculous ways in my own life. So, why do I doubt? Human nature, I guess. I have one testimony in particular of God’s provision and protection that keeps me encouraged. It is the story that brings me back from the edge of doubt every time.

It was May of 2010 or 2011. We had all gone to Indianapolis (about an hour drive from our home) to see Kiowa run her 2nd Half Marathon. She was a freshman in high school at this point. After the race, we went to breakfast and then headed back home. My ex-husband, Howard drove one car with his wife, Tami along with our sons Talon and Ty. Our oldest daughter, Cherokee, who was a Junior in high school drove her 1996 Ford Ranger extended cab truck with myself, Kiowa and our other daughter Cree, who was in 7th grade.

The girls and I took another highway home and separated from Howard, in the other car. Indiana highways are for the most part rural, unless you get near the bigger cities. We were about 1/2 an hour outside of Indianapolis in a very rural area. Houses were few and far between and the truck starts to over heat. Even back then, Cherokee has always been level headed and doesn’t panic. I immediately started to pray. We saw a dirt road up ahead with a handful of houses on it, so we decided to turn there. I thought we would go to the first house, but Cherokee past it. She said she didn’t feel that they would be able to help us. She turned into the second drive and drove back to where a big red barn stood open. A couple of guys came out to see why a woman with 3 teenage girls was pulling up to their house. They looked like they were in their 20’s maybe. Cherokee told them the truck was over heating and they popped the hood to see what was going on. They saw the problem right away. The seal on the radiator cap was rotted out and caused the cap to allow the water in the radiator to escape. While the one guy took a hose and cooled the engine down, the other guy went to find a radiator cap. BY CHANCE he had gone to Auto Zone the day before and just happened to pick up the exact one we needed for our truck!!! He told us that he NEVER gets that type, but for some reason he picked it up. The radiator cap was the perfect fit and as soon as the engine was cool enough and filled back up with water, we were back on our way. It never over heated again.

Coincidence?

I think not!

A Miracle?

I believe it.

Cherokee was led to that house.

The guys happened to be mechanics.

The regular run to Auto Zone just happened to include picking up a radiator cap that they never would have used any other time.

They had bought the cap the day before.

The issue was fixed for good.

God answered my prayer.

 

I KNOW that it was God! So why do I doubt? God has shown us His ability to provide and protect in miraculous ways. Why doubt?

All I can say is that I am a work in progress. I am grateful that God is a God of grace and that He reminds me that He is still a God of miracles.

I hope that this testimony has encouraged you. God can and will work miracles in our lives. We need only to believe!

 

 

 

 

 

 

1 Corinthians 3:10-15

10 By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as a wise builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one should build with care. 11 For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. 12 If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, 13 their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. 14 If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward. 15 If it is burned up, the builder will suffer loss but yet will be saved—even though only as one escaping through the flames.

Matthew 7:24-27

24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

We all know that anything that is not built with a solid foundation will crumble and fall. The same goes for our Christian walk. Our foundation as Christians has to be built on the Rock (Jesus). How do we build a firm foundation as a Christian?

1 Corinthians 15:58

58 Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.

Matthew 7 tells us that those who HEAR what Jesus is saying to us AND PRACTICES what He says will have a solid foundation. We need to be ACTIVELY LISTENING to what Jesus is telling us. Not only do we need to listen, we need to PRACTICE what He says. We need to be OBEDIENT.

Corinthians 15:58 tells us that we need to STAND FIRM. It reiterates this by saying that we are to LET NOTHING MOVE US. We are to GIVE OURSELVES FULLY TO THE WORK OF THE LORD.

As Christians, there are some spiritual disciplines that we should be actively practicing in obedience to Jesus:

  1. PrayerDo not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Philippians 4:6
  2. Bible StudyKeep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Joshua 1:8
  3. Fellowship with Believers42 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43 Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. 44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. Acts 2:42-44 

Of course, we can’t forget the commands that Jesus gives us in the verses I started with:

  1. Hear (Listen)
  2. Practice (Obedience)
  3. Stand Firm (Let nothing move you)
  4. Give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord

Challenge:

These are not the only spiritual disciplines of Jesus or that the Bible commands us to practice. I am challenging you to find the other spiritual practices of Jesus. I challenge you to find the other disciplines that the Bible tells us that we need to actively practice. Reflect in your journal and find ways to implement these disciplines into your daily life. Don’t think of it as something that needs to be checked off of a to-do list. the disciplines are not meant to be legalistic. They are meant to bring you closer to the heart of God. They are meant to help you build your foundation as a Christian.

Life as a Christian is not easy. It’s not meant to be. As with everything important, it takes a solid foundation to build a strong house, car, relationship or Christian life. Dig into the Bible and ask the Holy Spirit to lead you as you seek His ways. A foundation built on anything other than Jesus will crumble and fall, so build your foundation on the ROCK (JESUS).

 

 

 

I have been doing a study of Revelation. It is not an easy book to read and it has taken longer than I anticipated. There have been passages that have made me reflect on my own Christian walk. Today’s question I have to ask myself is:

Am I a lukewarm Christian?

It is a hard question and deserves a brutally honest answer. So, here goes, in some ways, yes I guess I am. I pray continually. I read and study the Bible. I create faith based content for this blog. I live simply. I am attending church as much as I can in this current pandemic situation. God and His will are always on my mind.

BUT

All of that doesn’t mean anything if I am not putting feet to my faith. 

Do I share the Gospel? Ummm, yes through my blog, BUT in person I fall flat. I let fear of rejection keep me from being that vessel that opens the door for the Holy Spirit to walk thru.

Do I follow where God leads? Yes and No. I do as long as where He leads is still in my comfort zone, I am happy to follow. It is when He ventures out of that zone (and He does often!) that I tend to falter. In my fear, I take my eyes off of God and I start to doubt MY OWN ABILITY. On my own, I WILL fail, but with GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE! 

Do I obey the promptings of the Holy Spirit?  Again, it is a Yes and No answer. I do as long as my feet are planted firmly on the ground and I am not challenged in any way that may cause my fear and anxiety to kick in. Take me out of my comfort zone and Moses’s arguments can’t hold a candle to mine! To my own detriment, I am afraid. Moses wasn’t allowed to lead the Israelites into the promised land. How many miracles have I missed being a part of because I allowed my fear to surpass my faith?

Where is my faith?  Honestly, it comes and goes. God has done so many miracles in my life and He has brought together answers to prayer that have left me with my jaw dropped, so why do I still doubt? Good question. I guess that I let the negative voices of my people get in my head, Satan gets that foothold and fear and doubt follow close behind. GOD IS TRUTH! As long as I am stepping out of my comfort zone FOR HIM, He will have my back.

Our Christian walk is a journey. We will have days where our faith soars and we will have days where we will cower in fear. Look at David and Elijah. They were both strong men of God, but as soon as their was a bounty on their heads, they headed for the hills. They ran away and hid in caves. If these two Godly men ran from their opposition, where does that leave me? It leaves me on my knees, in complete submission to a God that is in complete control of all things.

I am a work in progress. It is a journey. I have grown. I am growing. Will I fully attain it? Probably not. But as long as I continue to grow, God is good to meet me where I am. Am I lukewarm? Possibly. I hope that doesn’t get me spewed out of God’s mouth. My desire for God, Jesus, and the Word of God grows every day. God sees my heart and hopefully it is acceptable to Him.

ARE YOU LUKEWARM?

I encourage you to reflect on this question and answer honestly. What changes need to be made for you to be on fire for God?

 

 

Dear single mom,

I know that prayer can be intimidating, but think of it as a conversation with your best friend. God wants to hear about our lives. Yes, He does already know everything, but He wants US to share our lives with Him. He wants US to WANT to share our lives with Him.

Prayer is a conversation with God. God hears us when we pour our hearts from a place of desperation, pray for our kids, intercede on behalf of someone else or a situation. God is also a loving God who wants to bless us. He wants to give us good things, but we need to ask first. We need to pray in order for God to work in our lives and our situations. We need to pray according to His will, making sure that our motivations are in line with His word, 1 John 5:14-15 And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him. James 4:2-3 You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

It took some time for me to really get comfortable praying. It isn’t something that you can “learn” how to do by reading about it. You simply have to dive in and “Just Do It!”

Here are 3 ways of praying that have transformed my prayer life:

  1. Continual Conversation – As I go about my day, I focus on the presence of God. I can feel the presence of the Holy Spirit in everything that I do. I carry on a conversation as I go about my business. I thank God for the good, the blessings as I come across them (they can be little things, like a rainbow, harvesting vegetables from the garden, flowers blooming in our garden, or the simple kindness of a stranger). I cry out to God when I read about injustice or an accident that has happened. I pray for the victims of crimes as I read about them. I pour out my heart when someone hurts me or I am facing a situation that causes me heartache. I also, pour out my heart when I know that I have acted in a way that dishonors God. I start my prayer when I get out of bed and I end it at the end of the day, when I ask for protection during the night. When I carry on a continual conversation with God throughout my day, it reminds me that God is with me always. I can feel His presence in a very real way and it is AWESOME!
  2. Journal – I love to write, so journaling is a given for me. I don’t have a fancy journal or do any fancy artwork in it. I have a five subject spiral notebook (they have more pages) and I simply write as my heart desires. Some days, I write pages and pages or some days I write half a page. There may be 2 or 3 days when I don’t write. Because I am in continual conversation with God, I am still praying, but there are times when pouring out my heart in a journal helps me process better. It’s just the act of writing it out that seems to bring some peace. Sometimes getting it out of your head and on paper can make something that seems complicated seem pretty simple. Sometimes we get a different perspective when we get out of our heads by writing down our thoughts and prayers.
  3. Listen – As I go about my day focusing on the presence of God, I listen to what HE has to say to ME. I keep my heart open to the little ways that He may be leading me or the whispers of advice that He may be giving me. Conversation is not just about talking, it is about listening too. God will speak to us, but we need to be listening.

I used to be intimidated by people who prayed the big, eloquent prayers. I’m not any more. God is going to be more willing to answer the simple prayer of a single mom who sincerely prays, “Lord, help me” than the long, flowery prayer of someone who is just looking to build him/herself up. God is not looking for perfection. He is looking for a sincere, obedient heart.

I encourage you, single mom, to get a notebook and write out a prayer to God. Don’t think about what you are writing. Allow your heart to speak from the experiences of your life and you will be surprised at what flows out. It may feel awkward at first, but it will become more natural the more you focus on God. Open your heart and allow God to become real in your life and you will see the miracles that believing in Him can bring.

 

 

I know that I have written about my struggle with the Church in previous posts. I have visited a hand full of churches since our departure in January of 2011 and have gone periods where I didn’t go at all. I have grown immensely in this time, but I have missed the fellowship with other believers. I have missed the community.

I am going back! I started going to church with Cherokee and her family before I moved to Georgia, but did not get to go on a regular basis because of my work schedule. When I returned from Georgia, I was determined to make a commitment to a church. Of course Covid-19 through my plan off a bit and I had to wait until the church reopened in late June. I have gone with Cherokee, Chris and the kids and it is good. Some things are strange like having to make reservations, wearing masks and no other classes or services right now, but it is good to be able to go.

I felt God leading me to make a formal commitment and so I emailed the pastor and will be going through the process to become a member. This pastor was completely welcoming and he has only met me a couple of times in the past. It was a change from a past church that we attended as a family for 6 years. The church we left in 2011 and were fully involved in. I began the process to become a member there, but was then ignored. There were other issues that led to us making the tough decision to leave the church, but it hurt me when we had been actively involved for 6 years and I was overlooked for membership when others were welcomed as members at the same time. The pastor and I had been in communication about membership and then I was ignored, while others became members. I was crushed. So it is, I guess healing in a way, to have a pastor welcome me into a church family without knowing me personally.

It is good to be obedient to the leading of the Holy Spirit. It brings peace. Even though my relationship with God has grown in my years away from the Church, I still felt lost. I have felt a restlessness, a disconnect of sorts that I can only assume comes from not being connected to a local body of believers to share life and faith with. It is important. I tried to fool myself into thinking it wasn’t, but it is. It is vital to have other believers in your life. I have felt a peace since I sent the email to the pastor. I have felt like I have finally found my “home”. I belong. I can’t wait until we can resume classes and other programs. I can’t wait to get to know other people who attend there.

Life is full of blessings! Some hardships, but many many blessings!

 

Dear single mom,

Isaiah 54:5-6

For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. The Lord will call you back as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—
a wife who married young, only to be rejected,” says your God.

When I first heard this verse, it opened my heart to a new perspective of God. I was at a single mom weekend in 2006, when the speaker, Lori Little, shared this verse. I had always known of God as my Father, but when I heard this verse, God met me in my pain and it changed my life. When I started to see God as my Husband, my perspective on earthly relationships changed. Earthly relationships are good, but they can not take the place of our relationship with God.

What is a husband’s role? 

Provider

Protector

Comforter

Listener

Companion

Guide

Wise Counsel

 

Did I leave anything out? These are ALL things that we can find in God.

Provider – God has provided for me and my kids for the 20 years that I have been a single mom. We have never gone without clothes, food, transportation, housing, etc. We have always had what we needed. There were times when I would start to notice that one or two of the kids were outgrowing their clothes and before I had time to address the need, I would come home to trash bags full of clothes for the child in need plus the others. We have never been without. In what way is God, your husband, providing for you and your kids?

Protector – God has protected us individually and as a family. I completely believe that He has His angels surrounding us during the day and as we sleep, because I pray protection over us. There have been situations that could have been so much worse without God’s intervention. I feel His presence on a daily basis. In what ways has God, your husband, protected you and your kids?

Comforter – Life as a single mom is littered with tears. There have been times when my only prayer was, “Don’t let me go.” In those times I feel the presence of the Holy Spirit like a cozy blanket that allows me to grieve and heal. God wraps me in His love and whispers His love to my heart in ways that allow me to believe that despite my circumstances, I am worthy and I am loved. In what ways has God, your husband, comforted you lately?

Listener – God listens as I pour out my heart. He listens as I pour out my prayer requests. He knows my heart and He cares. He listens and He answers in the rainbows, the songs of the birds, the sighting of a Cardinal, the beautiful hue of a sunset, the babbling waters of a creek and in so many other ways. He answers in simple but deeply meaningful ways. In what ways has God, your husband, shown that He is listening to you?

Companion – God is a 24/7 presence in my life. He is my companion. He is the one I share random conversations with as I go through my day. He is the one who is there when I am heartbroken over bad news and He is there when I am rejoicing good news. I rest on the promise God gives us in Hebrews 13:5 Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you. I know that I can take God at His word. I trust Him completely.

Guide – Just as God guided the Israelites by cloud during the day and by fire at night, I know that the Holy Spirit guides me in my single mom journey. In any decision I need to make, the Holy Spirit, is a prayer away and ready to step in to guide me. He is not going to let me hang in the wind. He will lead me in the way I must go.

Wise Counsel – I know that if I am burdened by any issue or am living in sin, the Holy Spirit, in love will deal with my heart. If I listen, He will tell me how to restore any situation that I might find myself in. He is always present to tell us how to navigate life as a single mom.

Soon after the single mom retreat, I realized that the role God played in my life had changed. No longer was He the Father that looked after me as I grew up. He was now my Husband and I knew, instinctively, that He was ALL that I needed. I made a vow to remain celibate not long after the retreat and I have never looked back. I don’t expect you to follow me into celibacy! I am asking you to give God a chance today to be the husband that you need. Maybe forever or until He brings a Godly man into your life to fill that role. You NEED Him, single mom! Whether you know it or not.

Challenge:

I challenge you to research the ways in which God (Holy Spirit) fills the role as husband in our lives. Start by finding scriptures for the roles listed above and expand from there. If you find others that aren’t listed, please send them to me! I love feedback and hearing from other single moms!

 

 

John 3:30

He must become greater; I must become less.

God has been dealing with me on this issue. I have been reading You Are The Girl For The Job, By: Jess Connolly. In this book, Jess says,

“You may not care a thing about beauty, and motherhood may not be on your radar. I realize that these are easy examples for some of us to relate to and easy for others of us to dismiss. But it doesn’t change the undeniable truth that somewhere in your life, there is temptation to measure up, to compete, to stand out, to rank. Where in your life do you feel a constant or frequent desire to look to the left or the right and compare yourself to others? Maybe you’d never admit that your trying to be the best, but quietly you’re spinning your wheels. You might never dream of saying it out loud to another human, but you’re silently exploring where you rank at ______________________________.” 

The question is: Why do we push ourselves to compete? Why do we push ourselves to stand out? Is it for ourselves or is it to give God the glory?

This is a question I ask myself daily as I start this ministry for single moms. I ask myself because I am a people pleaser. I have a tendency to do things for the approval of people and not to glorify God. Not that I don’t want to glorify God, I do more than anything. I guess it is more of fearing rejection and the disapproval of people and so I strive to be perfect, to be the best so that no one can find fault with what I do. I fear criticism. I have found however, that you can’t please everyone no matter how hard you try. There are those people who will find fault no matter what you do. They aren’t the ones that matter anyway.

ONLY GOD MATTERS!!! I am not perfect. God does not care that I am not perfect. He does not expect me to be perfect, as long as I am obedient to His will. He loves me, imperfections and all!

So, why do I want to serve single moms? Is it so I can get the accolades of being a ministry leader? Is it so that people see ME? I can honestly answer NO! to both questions. I don’t like the spotlight. I don’t like being the center of attention. I have a burden to see single moms and their kids build a relationship with Jesus. I have felt this burden since 2006. I have a burden to love single moms to Jesus.

“We cannot seek God’s glory and our own at the same time.” Jess Connolly

Ask yourself:

Are you serving to glorify God or yourself? Are you seeking to please God or people? Are you running your own race or are you running God’s race? Be honest with yourself.

JESUS MUST COME FIRST! WE MUST COME LAST!

 

 

 

 

Dear Single Mom,

I know! I know! Who has time to think about healing? You have been tossed into this new life of being a single mom, possibly blindsided to boot, and you are barely able to keep your head above water. Who has time to heal? Let me tell you something right now, IT’S OKAY TO FOCUS ON HEALING!!! You need to heal to be the best mom possible for your kids.

I wish I could tell you that I made healing a priority early on. I did not and my kids suffered for it. I was a HOT MESS of emotions and they were the ones who had to see their mom seething with rage, trying to beat up their dad’s new girlfriend (they have been together now for 20 years and she is my BEST FRIEND). I was so overwhelmed with guilt, fear, hate, rage, bitterness, you get the point, that I failed to see that they were affected too. I made it all about me and it wasn’t all about me. Their dad has ALWAYS been in their lives and he has ALWAYS been about his kids and taking care of them, but they had to adjust to a co-mom, 4 new brothers, and a new house for us. I wish that I had focused on my healing at the beginning. If I had then I could have been there as a whole person for them. I wasn’t whole. I was a broken mess and I added to my kids burdens.

Living in regret doesn’t solve anything, so I am using my experience to tell you to focus on healing NOW! Don’t wait. I wish someone had told me that at the beginning. I learned the hard way. I am fortunate that I renewed my faith in God and began to heal the pain of my past. My kids are fine for the most part. I am blessed to be able to share my testimony with you and walk with you in your journey.

REMINDER:

You know that heartache and anger that you are feeling? Imagine what your child must be dealing with. Add confusion to the mix, because they don’t understand, and you have a child who may act out when he/she never did before. Your child may become withdrawn or depressed. I know it seems selfish to think about our own healing first, but until we are whole we can’t appropriately help our kids heal.

Don’t let any more time go by without focusing on your healing, single mom. Your kids need you mentally and emotionally healthy. If you need guidance in your healing, visit my L.I.F.E program page. It is an e-coaching program that focuses on healing and transformation. I will be there 100% of the way. You are not alone in this single mom! It’s time to heal!