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Ephesians 4:26

Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger…

As a mom, it makes me ANGRY when a person or people come against one of my children unjustly. My kids are now 26, 25, 23, 20, and 18, but age doesn’t matter. If one of my kids is under attack, the protective mama bear arises from her slumber and wants to destroy.

This has been the situation the last few days with one of my sons. This situation has caused me to become very angry and protective. He is 20 years old, a man, and can handle himself, but I DON”T CARE!!! I have a protective mom heart that wants to SCREAM, “LEAVE MY CHILD ALONE!!!” I really wanted to tear them limb from limb and remind them NOT TO MESS WITH MY SON!

I wanted to send messages and rant in my rage, but fortunately, I did not. As a child of God with the living, breathing, Holy Spirit living inside me, I knew I could not. As much as I wanted to let loose my fury on my son’s behalf, I instead, looked up every scripture on anger I could find in the Bible (there are many!) and reminded my heart of what I already knew…anger leads to sin and separation from God. Unchecked anger does not solve anything. Unchecked anger only adds fuel to the fire and I knew that was NOT God’s will.

So instead I pray that God will work in the heart’s of those involved and that He will work in the situation. My anger will only cause more drama. I know that anger in itself is not the problem. Anger can cause people to fight for causes and injustice, but when that anger leads us to sin, that’s where the problem lies. I won’t allow Satan to trip me up and cause me to stray away from my heavenly Father and my Savior, Jesus. Satan knows all to well that the way to trip up us mamas, is to attack our babies. Not this time!

I encourage you to look up the verses on anger and remember that being angry is okay, but make sure you use that anger to fuel constructive action and not destructive action.

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